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Learning how to masturbate anally can lead to some seriously mind-blowing orgasms, but it does require patience, practice, and the right technique.
Before you dive in, there are a few things you’ll want to know to make sure you have a safe and enjoyable experience.
We’ll walk you through everything you need to get started, from the essential supplies to have on hand to the step-by-step techniques to try. Fair warning, though, once you discover how good it feels, you will keep wondering why you missed out on this hypnotizing play all this while!
Now wash your hands and let’s get this party started.
Shall we?
Benefits of Anal Masturbation
Why go to the backdoor despite the concerns about cleanliness, odor, or other related factors? Well, exploring anal masturbation can not only be pleasurable but also provide numerous benefits for individuals who engage in this intimate activity.
Additionally, while it’s true that the anus is naturally involved in the elimination process, there are steps you can take to ensure a hygienic experience? Here are a few of the major benefits:
Pleasure Galore
Anal masturbation can offer intense sensations and heightened pleasure due to the high concentration of sensitive nerve endings in the anal region. According to research and studies, many people say they find stimulating their anus during masturbation or sex can lead to stronger, longer orgasms for many people. As you experiment and discover what feels good for you, you will experience mind-blowing orgasms and full-body sensations like never before.
Relaxation and Stress Relief
Experiencing orgasms during anal masturbation releases endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin hormones that act as natural painkillers and stress relievers.
Engaging in anal play can therefore be a great way to release tension and alleviate stress as these hormones can melt away tension and leave you feeling blissed out.
The pleasurable sensations and focus on self-care can help you relax both physically and mentally which promotes an overall sense of well-being.
Exploration and Body Awareness
Anal masturbation allows you to explore your body in a new and intimate way. As you listen to your body’s responses during your anal solo play, you gain a deeper understanding of your body, desires, and preferences which can enhance your overall sexual experiences.
Trying new techniques like anal fingering or using butt plugs helps you discover what turns you on in a whole new way. You can then show your partner what you like!
You can do it alone
Solo anal masturbation is a great way to experience ecstatic orgasms without going out of your comfort to find someone else. Butter and cherry on top? You also don’t have to worry about sexual diseases when you engage in solo anal masturbation.
Builds Intimacy
If you have a partner, anal masturbation can deepen the bond and strengthen your sexual connection. Show them what you like, and be open to exploring anal play together.
Open communication, trust, and shared exploration can foster a stronger connection and a more fulfilling sexual relationship.
Improved Prostate Health
The prostate, known as the P-spot, can produce mind-blowing male orgasms. Anal masturbation for men is the only way to directly stimulate this erogenous zone. Additionally, anal stimulation can provide health benefits for men by reducing inflammation and improving circulation.
In fact, research and studies suggest that regular prostate massage through anal masturbation may help reduce the risk of certain prostate issues and contribute to overall prostate well-being.
Self-Expression and Empowerment
Engaging in anal play can be an act of self-expression and sexual empowerment. When you embrace your desires and explore your own pleasure through anal masturbation, you are taking ownership of your sexuality and embracing a positive attitude towards self-discovery.
Expanded Sexual Repertoire
Incorporating anal masturbation into your sexual repertoire can add variety and excitement to your intimate experiences. It allows you to broaden your sexual horizons, explore new sensations, and discover different ways to experience pleasure.
Strengthens Your Pelvic Floor
Anal masturbation flexes and tones your pelvic floor muscles. Strong PC muscles lead to more powerful orgasms and improved bladder control. So lube up, start slow, and savor the naughty thrill of anal masturbation. Your body and mind will thank you.
First Things First: Essential Anal Masturbation Safety Tips
I know you are super excited to get started, but before we dive in, it’s important to understand how to do it right. Let’s go over some safety tips to ensure your adventure is enjoyable and injury-free.
Start slowly and be gentle
The anus and rectum are delicate areas so take your time exploring and gradually work your way up to inserting anything. The anus is not naturally lubricated, so you have to prepare the area.
Gently massage and rub the area to relax the muscles before inserting anything. Start with a single finger or a small anal sex toy designed for beginners.
Insert slowly and if there’s any discomfort, stop. You can damage the delicate rectal tissue by being too rough. Remember to lubricate liberally and reapply as needed as the anus does not self-lubricate and friction can lead to pain or tearing.
Always stop if there’s discomfort
Forcing anything can lead to damage so listen to your body and go at your own pace. It may take several sessions before you’re comfortable inserting larger objects or a penis.
Never go from anal to vaginal play without changing condoms/toys
This can introduce bacteria and lead to infection.
Never put anything that doesn’t have a flared base into your anus
Use sex toys specifically designed for anal play that have a flared base. Standard toys can get lost inside the rectum, requiring an embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
A couple of years ago I was told by a girlfriend that a man put a Christmas tree toy in his rectum. The doctors had to remove it, because he couldn’t do it on his own.
Only use specifically designed anal toys and always follow the instructions. Also, keep anything you insert clean and avoid sharp edges.
Listen to your body
Some discomfort at first is normal, but if there’s pain that’s your body saying to stop. You can always try again another time when you’re more aroused and relaxed.
Forcing it will likely lead to injury so listen to your body and go at your own pace. It may take several sessions before you’re comfortable inserting large objects or a penis.
With the proper precautions and starting slow, anal masturbation can open you up to new heights of pleasure. But your safety should always come first.
Steps For Anal Masturbation
1. Do your research
Learn the anatomy of the anus and how to stimulate the prostate or G-spot. Know the safety precautions to avoid injury.
2. Get the right supplies
You’ll want a water-based lubricant (they are less messy because they are not as sticky as silicon-based), latex gloves or fingers, and possibly an anal sex toy designed for beginners. Start with a small toy, around 1 inch in diameter. As you get more comfortable, you can size up if desired.
3. Clean Up
Take a warm bath to relax your muscles. Wash the area thoroughly. Use a mild soap and gently cleanse the outside of the anus. Rinsing well will ensure you feel fresh and avoid irritation. Use the showerhead to stimulate and put yourself in the mood.
Once showered, find a comfortable place without disturbances. Ensure you have lube, toys (if using), towels, and anything else you may want within easy reach.
4. Find the Right Position
Experiment with different positions to find what feels best for you. Lying on your side with your knees bent is a great place to start. You can also try doggy style, squatting over a mirror, or on your back with legs up. If you don’t know which position is best for you, we will discuss these positions in detail in a short while.
5. Relax and start slow
Do some deep breathing to relax your body and mind. Tensing up will make anal masturbation uncomfortable. Start with external stimulation around the anus. Gently massage the perineum and anal opening to increase arousal and relaxation. Breathe deeply and focus on the pleasurable sensations.
6. Lubricate
Lubricant is essential for comfort and safety. Apply a generous amount of lube to your fingers and around the anal opening. Water-based lube is a good choice for anal play. Reapply frequently as needed to keep things slick and reduce friction.
7. Stimulate the anal opening
Gently insert just the tip of your finger or toy into the anal opening. Don’t go deeper than your first knuckle. Move your finger in small circles just inside the opening. Breathe and relax into the sensation.
8. Arouse other erogenous zones
Use your other hand to stroke your genitals, nipples or other sensitive areas. The more aroused you are, the more relaxed and open your anus will become.
9. Go Deeper
As you relax, slowly insert your finger or toy a bit deeper, up to 2 inches. Move it in and out while stimulating the walls of the anal canal. Angle towards the front to stimulate the prostate or G-spot.
10. Add intensity
Once fully aroused with 2-3 inches inserted comfortably, you can increase the speed and pressure. You may be able to orgasm from the anal stimulation alone or combine with genital masturbation.
11. Focus on enjoying the new sensations
Relax and allow yourself to be fully immersed in the experience. Focus on the feeling and allow yourself to orgasm in any way your body demands. Take your time and do what feels good for you.
With practice and patience, you’ll be enjoying the intense pleasure of anal masturbation in no time. Remember to go slowly, stop if there’s pain, use lots of lubrication, and relax into the experience. You’ll be enjoying mind-blowing anal orgasms in no time.
Aftercare and Self-Care Tips for Anal Masturbation
Taking care of yourself after anal masturbation is essential. Prioritizing aftercare and self-care ensures you create a safe and fulfilling experience that nurtures both your physical and emotional well-being.
Here are some aftercare and self-care tips to ensure a positive and fulfilling experience:
1. Hygiene is important
After anal play, it’s crucial to clean yourself properly. Take a warm shower or gently wash the anal area with mild soap and warm water. Remember to pat dry instead of rubbing to avoid any irritation.
2. Rest and relax
Engaging in anal masturbation can be physically and mentally stimulating. Afterward, allow yourself some time to rest and relax. Find a comfortable space where you can unwind and enjoy the sensations you’ve experienced.
3. Stay hydrated
Drinking plenty of water is always important, especially after any sexual activity. It helps flush out toxins and keeps your body hydrated. So, remember to have a glass of water or your favorite hydrating beverage to replenish yourself.
4. Gentle stretches for muscle relaxation
Just like any other muscle, the muscles around the anus may benefit from gentle stretching and relaxation exercises. Incorporate some light stretches into your routine to relieve any tension and promote muscle recovery.
5. Self-reflection and communication
Take some time to reflect on your experience and how it made you feel. Consider journaling or discussing your feelings with a trusted partner or friend if you feel comfortable doing so. Open communication can help deepen your understanding of your desires and preferences.
6. Emotional self-care
Engaging in anal play can be an intimate and personal experience. It’s important to nurture your emotional well-being after exploring your sexuality. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-compassion, and surround yourself with positive influences.
7. Continual exploration and learning
Anal masturbation is just one aspect of sexual exploration and there is always more to discover. Stay curious and open-minded as you continue to learn about your body and its unique desires. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and enjoy the path of sexual exploration.
6 Best Anal Masturbation Positions
The best anal masturbation positions allow you to easily access and maximize pleasure. Try these top 6 positions to experience mind-blowing anal orgasms:
1. Doggy style
Get on your hands and knees with your butt in the air. This position gives you easy access to slide toys or fingers in and out. Rock your hips back and forth at your own pace to hit the right spot. The angle also allows for deeper penetration if you want to explore.
2. On your side
Lying on your side with one leg straight and one knee bent is a comfortable position for longer anal play sessions. You can thrust at the speed and depth you want while still being able to relax into the sensations. Use your free hands to stimulate other erogenous zones for full-body pleasure.
3. Sitting
Sit on the edge of your bed or in a chair with your legs spread. Lean back slightly and lift your feet to rest on the edge of the bed. This opens you up for play and gives you a perfect view of the action. You’re in full control of the speed, angle and depth of penetration.
4. Standing
If you want to get in a quick masturbation session, stand in front of a wall or table, place your hands on the surface for support, and stick your butt out. Bend forward for deeper penetration or arch your back to target the sensitive nerve endings around the opening of the anus. The standing position creates unique sensations from the pull of gravity that can enhance the experience.
5. On your back
Lying on your back is a simple but effective position for anal masturbation, especially when you’re just starting out. Bend your knees and place your feet flat on the bed to give yourself room to explore.
Start with shallow penetration using fingers or small toys and work your way deeper into the anus as arousal builds. Use pillows under your hips for better access. The comfort of this position allows you to fully relax into the pleasure.
6. Squatting
In a squat position with feet flat on the floor, reach around and penetrate your anus with your fingers or a toy. The squat maximizes penetration by opening up your anal cavity.
Stroke your genitals with your other hand for combined pleasure. Slowly stand up and squat back down to control depth of penetration.
Advanced Anal Masturbation Techniques
Once you’ve mastered the basics of anal masturbation, you may want to explore some more advanced techniques to intensify your pleasure. Try the following anal masturbation tips to take your anal play to the next level:
Vibrators
Using a vibrator designed for anal play can stimulate your anus in ways fingers alone can’t. Look for a vibrator that’s specifically made for anal use, that’s smaller in size and has a flared base so it doesn’t get lost inside you. Apply plenty of lube and start with the lowest vibration setting, gradually increasing as desired. The vibrations will enhance all the sensitive nerve endings around your anus.
Prostate Massage
For men, a prostate massage during anal masturbation can lead to incredibly intense orgasms. The prostate gland is located about 2 to 3 inches inside the anus, toward the front of the body. Use a finger or prostate massager to apply firm pressure to the walnut-sized gland. Gently massage the prostate using a “come here” motion. Continued stimulation of the prostate during masturbation can lead to prostate orgasms and ejaculation.
Double Penetration
For the ultimate anal pleasure, try double penetrating yourself using a dildo vaginally and anally at the same time. Start with smaller dildos and lots of lube, going slowly until you’re comfortable with the sensation of fullness. The vaginal and anal stimulation together will enhance all the pleasurable sensations. This advanced technique may require some practice to become comfortable and enjoyable. Take your time and stop if it becomes painful. Your patience will pay off!
Anal Masturbation Tips
Here are some tips to keep in mind in order to make anal masturbation much more interesting and comfortable:
Start slow
The anus is a sensitive area, so you need to relax to avoid discomfort. Ease into anal masturbation by starting with light external stimulation. Go at your own pace and insert your finger further in as you feel comfortable.
Watch anal masturbation porn videos
If you want to put yourself in the mood after and easily, watch anal masturbation porn videos. Take your time and concentrate on the videos as you start stimulating yourself. When you feel you have taken off, pause the video or mute it then focus on yourself.
Find the right lube
Water-based lubes are safe for anal play. Apply generously since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Reapply as needed. Oil-based lubes can damage condoms, so avoid using protection.
Experiment with different positions
Start in a familiar position and experiment with different positions to find what is most pleasurable and comfortable for you. Lying on your back with knees bent is a good beginner position.
You can also try kneeling or standing bent over. Start with external stimulation, then gradually insert a finger or sex toy as you get aroused. Move in small increments, pulling out and reapplying lube as needed.
Focus on relaxing
Tightening up will only make insertion more difficult and less pleasurable. Take deep breaths and gently stimulate other erogenous zones like nipples or genitals simultaneously.
When inserting a toy, choose one specifically designed for anal play that has a flared base. Glass or steel toys can also be a good option since they glide in more easily.
Find the prostate
For men, insert a finger a few inches into the anus and feel for a round bulb of tissue – that’s the prostate. Gently massage the prostate using a “come here” motion. Stimulating the prostate can lead to very intense orgasms.
Use anal sex toys
Sex toys add to overall pleasure because they are designed to enhance pleasure and they are ideal for anal training. Once you’re comfortable with finger insertion, try an anal sex toy like a small butt plug or anal beads.
Vibrating anal toys can also help stimulate the nerve endings for an amazing sensation. Double-check that any toys used are specifically designed for anal play and have a flared base to avoid losing them inside you. Safety first!
Don’t Miss Out on Double the pleasure
For an extra thrill, stimulate your genitals or clitoris at the same time as you anally masturbate. The combination of anal and genital stimulation may lead to mind-blowing blended orgasms that rock your entire body.
Anal Masturbation Accessories and Sex Toys for Enhanced Pleasure
To enhance your anal masturbation experience, consider investing in some toys and accessories designed specifically for anal play. These include:
Vibrators
There are vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers that can add stimulation through vibration. Start on a lower intensity setting and increase as desired.
Anal beads
Anal beads are spheres or balls attached together in a string or rod that are inserted into the anus and then slowly removed. Start with smaller beads and graduate to larger sizes as you get more comfortable. The sensation of the beads moving in and out can be extremely pleasurable.
Butt plugs
Butt plugs are toys designed to be inserted into the anus and left in place. They come in a variety of sizes, shapes and materials. Butt plugs apply pressure to the walls of the anus and can intensify orgasms during masturbation or sex. Start with a small, tapered plug and slowly size up.
Prostate massagers
For those with a prostate, a prostate massager can provide intense stimulation. Prostate massagers are curved to reach and massage the prostate. They vibrate, pulsate, and provide pinpointed pressure. Use plenty of lubricant and go slowly until you find the right spot.
Dildos
Dildos are phallic-shaped toys that can be used for anal penetration and stimulation. Look for dildos specifically designed for anal play that have a flared base to prevent the toy from slipping too far into the anus. Start with a small, slim dildo and work your way up in size and girth.
Lubricant
Lubricant is essential for safe and pleasurable anal masturbation. Use a lubricant that is specifically for anal sex, as it is thicker and longer-lasting. Reapply lubricant frequently, especially when using toys. Keep lubricant and toys within easy reach.
How to Masturbate Anally: Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Anal masturbation can bring intense pleasure, but it does come with questions. Here are some common concerns addressed:
Is it normal to masturbate anally?
Absolutely. Anal play of all kinds, including masturbation, is a normal and enjoyable activity for many. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Should I use anal sex toys?
Toys can enhance pleasure but fingers alone work great too, especially when you’re first starting out. If using toys, choose ones specifically designed for anal play that have a flared base. Start small and work your way up in size.
Will I get addicted to anal masturbation orgasms?
Anal masturbation, like any sexual activity, can be enjoyable and even habit-forming for some. However, there is no evidence it causes addiction or negatively impacts health or relationships when practiced responsibly. Moderation and balance are key.
Is anal masturbation safe?
As with any sexual activity, practice safe techniques. Use lubricant, go slowly, and avoid inserting any objects that could cause damage. Clean your hands and nails, start with external stimulation, and gradually work your way up to penetration if desired.
Will anal masturbation hurt?
Anal masturbation should not hurt if done properly. Start by gently massaging the outside of the anus. Apply lubricant and slowly insert one finger, then gradually add more fingers as you get comfortable. Go at your own pace and stop if it becomes painful.
Can women enjoy anal masturbation?
Absolutely. The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that can provide pleasure for anyone. For women, anal masturbation may stimulate the internal clitoris and G-spot. In fact, some women say they prefer to anal masturbation because it gives them more pleasure than vaginal penetration.
Is orgasm possible from anal masturbation?
Yes, anal masturbation can lead to very intense orgasms for both men and women. The key is to start slow, use plenty of lube, and focus on gradual stimulation of the anus and prostate or clitoris. With practice and patience, mind-blowing anal orgasms are achievable.
Conclusion
So there you have it, everything you need to know to explore the world of anal masturbation and experience sensations you never thought possible. Start slow, use plenty of lube, and focus on relaxing and enjoying yourself.
The key is not to rush into it. Take your time to get familiar with the area and discover what feels good for you.
Anal play can be an extremely pleasurable activity when done right, so why not give it a try? Once you get the hang of it, you’ll be coming back for more. The key is patience, practice, and persistence.
Keep at it and in no time you’ll be a pro, finding new ways to pleasure yourself anally and reach new heights of ecstasy.
What are you waiting for? Time to lube up, assume the position, and embark on your anal masturbation adventure. Happy exploring!
