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Hey queen, I know you’ve heard your friends whisper about the mind-blowing O’s they get from clitoral masturbation. Or maybe you’ve tried it but can’t quite get over the edge. Better still, maybe you’re just curious and now you want in on the magic but have no idea where to start.
Either way, I am here for you darling and I got you covered. Get ready to become an expert on your own body and give yourself the toe-curling climaxes you deserve.
I’ll walk you through everything you need to know about having earth-shattering orgasms from clitoral masturbation right from anatomy basics to finding the perfect stroke.
Alright, it’s time to unleash your inner sex goddess. Let’s dive in and get you on your way to mesmerizing bliss!
Getting to Know Your Clitoris: Why Tap Into This Pleasure Galore?
You deserve to experience pleasure on your own terms and clit play serves you this pleasure beyond your wildest imagination.
Clitoral masturbation allows you to explore your body, learn what arouses you, and have powerful orgasms whenever you want. However, that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
Here are reasons why you need to explore your body through clitoral masturbation:
1. Your clitoris is your primary pleasure center
Your clitoris is the only human organ designed solely for orgasmic pleasure. That is why they say the clitoris is the powerhouse of female orgasms.
That little nub is home to over 8,000 nerve-endings that make it extremely sensitive to touch making it the key to mind-blowing pleasure.
The visible part, called the clitoral glans or “head,” is just the tip. The internal clitoris extends deep into your pelvis.
Beneath the surface, the clitoris extends into your body as the clitoral shaft. It contains erectile tissue that also fills with blood when aroused. You can stimulate the clitoral shaft by gently massaging the area around and beneath the clitoral glans.
For some women, the shaft is even more sensitive than the external parts, so exploring the area may lead to new discoveries of what feels pleasurable for you.
2. Helps you explore and own your sexuality
When you masturbate, you’re in control of the pressure, rhythm, speed, and intensity—you can tailor the experience to your unique needs and desires. This helps you better understand your sexuality and gain confidence in yourself as a sexual being. Plus, the more you masturbate, the more orgasms you’ll have, and that certainly doesn’t hurt.
3. Relieves stress and anxiety
Masturbating is a great form of self-care that can help you sleep better, boost your mood, and make you feel good about yourself. This is because when you orgasm, your body releases endorphins, that act as natural painkillers and mood boosters.
4. Masturbating also leads to better sex with your partner(s)
When you know how to pleasure yourself, you can better guide your partner(s) to what feels good for you. Touching yourself helps you better communicate your desires to a partner. You’ll gain confidence in asking for what you want and showing them exactly how you like to be touched. Your solo explorations can lead to new discoveries that you’ll want to share.
5. It is the best alternative if you are not into penetrative sex
Clitoral masturbation comes in handy when you are not able to have other forms of sex. For example, masturbating on your period will ensure you don’t miss out on your sex life.
Additionally, some women experience pain with penetration and therefore clitoral stimulation is the only way they can experience pleasure. Some ladies also struggle to orgasm from penetrative sex alone. In all these situations, clit masturbation allows you to focus on stimulation where you need it most. You don’t have to rely on a partner to give you pleasure as you just take matters into your own hands!
Steps to Clitoral Masturbation
Alight gorgeous, it is time for supreme pleasure to reign so let’s get down to business.
One thing though; clitoral masturbation isn’t just about getting off. It’s about embracing your inner goddess and reveling in the sheer delight of your own sexuality.
So as we go ahead, darling, unleash your passion and let yourself be swept away on a tide of ecstasy. After all, pleasure is your birthright so why not claim it with every delicious stroke?
Here are steps and masturbation techniques to help get mind-blowing body orgasms:
1. Find Some Alone Time
Trust me, darling, setting the stage for undisturbed pleasure is the ultimate act of self-love so the first step is to seize the moment and make it all about you. Make sure you have adequate time to yourself without interruptions.
Next, power down those pesky electronic devices that might steal your attention away from the main event. The point is to allow yourself to summon your inner diva and stake your claim on uninterrupted bliss by ensuring there are no buzzing notifications, no distractions; just you and and tuning fully to your desires.
2. Get yourself Comfortable and in the Mood
Find a cozy nook where you can let your inhibitions run wild and unlock every inch of your fantasies. Whether it’s your bed, a plush rug, or a sumptuous velvet chaise lounge, make sure you’re surrounded by comfort and luxury. This is your playground, so get comfy and get ready to indulge.
If you have the time and privacy, read some erotic fiction, watch a sexy movie, watch porn videos, or whatever helps you relax and feel sensual. Don’t rush into the main event before you’ve built up anticipation.
3. Find your Clitoris
Alright, now let’s get down to the nitty-gritty; finding that pleasure-packed powerhouse, the holy grail of pleasure!
While this little gem is every lady’s ticket to ecstasy, it comes in different shapes and sizes so we have to make sure you know exactly where to find it. Take a moment to explore your vagina with your fingertips by tracing along your inner thighs and up towards your pubic mound.
Feel free to use a mirror to get familiar with your own pleasure galore. Your clitoris is the small nub located at the top of your vulva where the inner labia meet. Gently touch around this area to locate the exact spot that feels best.
Once you feel some sensitivity, look for a small, pea-sized bump nestled beneath a hood of skin at the top of your vulva. That’s your clit, babe!
4. Let the Exploration Begin
Once you’ve pinpointed the magical spot, don’t get started yet. You will need to get ready so that you show it some serious love and attention. After all, it’s the star of the show so save it for the last.
Start by teasing yourself. Next, run your hands slowly over your body to ignite those delicious shivers of anticipation. As things start to heat up, shift your focus to your clit.
5. Start Slow
Let’s kick things off nice and easy, shall we?
Begin by gently stroking the clitoris with your fingers, using small circular motions or up-and-down strokes. Start with a light touch, barely grazing the surface, then gradually apply more pressure as your desire builds. Pay attention to what sends shivers down your spine.
Here’s the real kicker: there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to self-love, so don’t be afraid to experiment and discover what sets your soul on fire! Some ladies crave direct contact, while others prefer a more subtle approach like tantalizing the clit through its hood. Pleasure is a personal journey, and you’re the fearless explorer charting your own course to ecstasy.
6. Add Some Slippery Sensations
Lube, baby, lube!
Adding some extra slickness to the mix. Apply a few drops of water-based lubricant to your fingers and smooth it over your fingertips or drizzle it directly onto your clit for an experience that’s as smooth as silk.
If you want to make it extra magical, use tingling or warming lube to heighten the sensations and increase the sensitivity to mesmerizing levels.
Keep reapplying as needed to keep things slick.
Trust me, the sleek arousal will render you breathless!
7. Stimulate other Erogenous Zones
You can also use your free hand to caress or stroke other sensitive areas babe, like your inner thighs, labia, and vaginal opening. This combination of sensations will intensify your pleasure. You can also gently squeeze your nipples or massage your breasts.
As you get more excited, insert a finger or two into your vagina for internal stimulation. Curve them upwards to stroke your G-spot, while still massaging your clit. The combination of internal and external stimulation can be explosive.
8. Spice Things Up with Toys (optional)
Want to take things to the next level? Introduce some sexy toys into the mix. Vibrators specifically designed for clitoral stimulation can send you spiraling into ecstasy with their powerful vibrations. Explore different shapes, sizes, and functions until you find the perfect toy to satisfy your cravings.
If you are in the shower, a showerhead can come in handy. Showerhead pressure can mesmerize you in ways you never thought of.
9. Find your Rhythm and Keep the Heat Rising
Don’t be afraid to push your boundaries and explore new sensations. Mix things up with alternating speeds, pressures, and techniques to find what makes you purr with pleasure and keep yourself on the edge of euphoria.
Whether it’s gentle circles, teasing taps, or a pulsating rhythm that sends shockwaves through your body, let your desires be your guide.
This is your time to shine, so let your passion ignite the flames of desire.
10. Release Control
The key to intense orgasms is letting go of control, darling. Don’t worry about how long it’s taking or whether you’ll “get there”. If you feel close to climaxing, keep doing exactly what you’re doing without changing speed or pressure.
Stay focused on the pleasure. Breathe deeply and let any tension melt away.
As your arousal reaches its peak, focus on intensifying your stimulation to send yourself soaring to new heights of ecstasy. Tune in to the signals your body is sending and let yourself surrender completely to the waves of pleasure crashing over you. Ride the wave of sensation and embrace the bliss!
Your orgasm may feel like a tingly rush, a series of pulsations, or an all-over body high. Relax and enjoy the experience.
11. Bask in the Afterglow
After you’ve reached that pinnacle of pleasure, take some time to luxuriate in the aftermath. Stay in the moment and ride out the entire experience. Even after your orgasm peaks, continue gentle stimulation to prolong the sensations as long as it feels good. Very light, teasing touches with gentle pressure can keep you aroused and bring multiple orgasms.
Later, take care of yourself and revel in the sheer bliss of your own sensuality. You’ve just given yourself the gift of unparalleled pleasure and you deserve every moment of it.
If you are thinking of another solo play, take your time to recover before starting another session darling because clitoral orgasms can be very powerful. Your body will need a break.
Best Positions for Clitoral Stimulation
Now that you know how to masturbate and earn powerful orgasms, here are the best sex positions to send your clit into overdrive:
Lying on your Back
Lying on your back with your legs spread is a classic position that provides easy access to your clitoris. Bend your knees and place your feet flat on the bed. Place a pillow under your hips to lift them slightly. Gently pull back the clitoral hood with your fingers, and explore the sides and tip of the clitoris using small circular motions.
Start slow and build up speed and pressure based on what feels good to you. You can also use a small vibrator to stimulate your clitoris in this position. If you want to go the extra mile, insert your fingers or dildo to combine your clit orgasms with g-spot orgasms. Be careful not to forget your name though due to the extreme mesmerizing maximum pleasure!
On All Fours
Get on your hands and knees for a doggy-style masturbation position. Reach under and between your legs to access your clitoris. The angle may feel different and exciting. Push your hips back to change the pressure and stimulation. This position also leaves your other hand free to caress your breasts or other erogenous zones.
In the Shower
Stand in a warm shower and direct the spray at your clitoris. The rushing water provides a tingling, pulsating sensation. Use your fingers to manipulate your clitoris under the running water.
The shower gives you plenty of privacy to moan and groan to your heart’s content. Be very careful not to slip in the shower during the intensity of your orgasm!
Sitting
Sitting in a comfortable chair or at the edge of the bed with your legs spread provides easy access for you or your partner to reach down and stroke your clitoris. The height and solid surface provide stability. Lean back on your hands and thrust your hips forward to grind against your fingers or a vibrator.
Using a small vibrator in this position can also lead to an intense clitoral orgasm. This seated position is also perfect if you want to watch something erotic or read some sexy stories to help get you in the mood.
Mirror Mirror
Standing in front of a mirror, bend forward at the hips with your legs slightly spread and rest your hands on a table or chair in front of you for support. This position lifts your clitoris for optimal stimulation. Reach down between your legs and explore your clitoris using small circular motions.
Watching yourself in the mirror can be highly erotic. Have your partner stand behind you in this position for an extra thrill.
Best Sex Toys For Clit Masturbation
Using sex toys designed specifically for clitoral sexual pleasure, whether alone or with a partner, is a surefire way to mind-blowing orgasms. Here are different sex toys you can experiment with to ignite your sex life passion:
Bullet Vibrator
A bullet vibrator is a small, handheld vibrator ideal for direct clit stimulation. Its small size allows for targeted pleasure and its quiet vibrations won’t wake the neighbors. Start with a lower vibration setting and increase the intensity for a mind-blowing sensation.
Wand Vibrator
A wand vibrator provides intense vibration over a broad area. It’s ideal for warming up the clitoris before moving on to more direct stimulation. The cordless, rechargeable versions offer the freedom of movement without tangled cords. Play around with using different attachments for variation.
Clitoral Suction Vibrator
This popular sex toy uses air pressure waves to stimulate the clitoris. It provides a sensation similar to oral sex that many women find irresistible. The suction pulls blood into the clitoris, increasing sensitivity.
Start with a lower setting until you get used to the pulsing sensation. The Womanizer and Satisfyer are well-known brands of clitoral suction vibrators.
Finger Vibrator
A finger vibrator slips onto your finger to turn your hand into a vibrator. It’s ideal if you prefer manual stimulation and the intimacy of using your fingers. The vibration enhances the sensation for both you and your partner. Finger vibrators are very portable and discreet, making them great for travel or on-the-go pleasure.
Clitoral Stimulator
A clitoral stimulator is designed specifically for clitoral pleasure. It has contoured shapes that nestle against the clitoris and vulva to stimulate all the right spots. Popular brands like the Eva II and the Dame Fin provide hands-free clitoral stimulation during sex or solo play. The vibration settings allow you to customize the intensity.
Clitoral Masturbation: Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Have some lingering questions about clitoral masturbation? Don’t worry, it’s totally normal to feel unsure about this sensitive topic. Here are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about clitoral stimulation:
Is clitoral masturbation safe?
Absolutely. Clitoral masturbation, like any other sexual activity, is completely safe if done properly and hygienically. Just be sure to wash your hands first and avoid inserting any foreign objects into the vagina.
Will it cause any long-term harm?
No, clitoral masturbation will not cause any long-term harm or damage when done occasionally in moderation. However, very frequent stimulation of the clitoris could potentially lead to slight desensitization over time, but sensitivity will return to normal with less frequent masturbation or other activities.
How do I reach orgasm through clitoral masturbation?
The key is to start slow, explore different touches to find what feels pleasurable to you, and gradually build up intensity. Try using your fingers to stroke, rub, or apply pressure to your clitoris. You can also try using a vibrator or showerhead on a low setting. Pay attention to your body’s responses to figure out what stimulation leads to the most pleasure and arousal. Be patient and enjoy the experience rather than rushing to orgasm.
How do I find my clitoris?
Your clitoris is the small bundle of nerves located at the top of your vulva, right where your inner labia meet. It’s usually a small bump that becomes erect when stimulated. Gently rub around the area until you locate your clit.
What are the best clitoral stimulation techniques for clit masturbation?
There’s no “right” way to masturbate. Try circular motions, up and down strokes, alternating pressure, or gently pulling back the clitoral hood. Start light and build up speed and pressure based on what feels pleasurable to you.
How long will it take me to orgasm?
There’s no set timetable for orgasms. Some women climax in just a few minutes of clitoral play while for others it can take 20-30 minutes or longer. Don’t focus so much on the destination; enjoy the journey.
Will it hurt?
Clitoral masturbation should never hurt. Be gentle, use lubricant if needed, and stop if anything becomes uncomfortable. Pain during sex or masturbation can sometimes indicate an underlying medical issue, so talk to your doctor if you frequently experience discomfort.
Will I get addicted to clitorial masturbation?
Masturbation itself is not addictive. However, some women find that masturbating to the point of ignoring other life responsibilities can become a problem. If you find this happening, consider speaking to a sex therapist. Otherwise, clitoral play on its own will not cause addiction.
How can I spice things up?
Once you’re comfortable, try masturbating in different positions like lying on your stomach or side. Use a mirror to get a full view of your vulva. Read or watch erotic stories. Buy a small clitoral vibrator or dildo. The options for experimenting are endless!
How often should I masturbate clitorally?
That depends on your personal preferences and libido. There is no “normal” frequency for masturbation or clitoral stimulation. Some people masturbate daily, some a few times a week, and some less often.
Do whatever feels right for you and your own sexuality as long as it doesn’t interfere with your work, relationships, or other responsibilities. The most important thing is that you masturbate in a way that feels pleasurable and empowering.
Conclusion
You deserve amazing orgasms! With the tips in this guide, you now have everything you need to explore your body and give yourself incredible pleasure through clitoral masturbation.
However, achieving a mind-blowing clitoral orgasm is a journey of self-discovery and practice. Start by getting comfortable and relaxed. Take your time to discover what feels good.
Be patient with yourself, stay focused on pleasure over performance, and learn to surrender to the experience. With time and consistency, you’ll be achieving toe-curling, scream-inducing climaxes in no time. You are worth it so go for it!
